Spells for Women Who Are Finally Old Enough to Not Give a Fuck is a fierce, profane, and powerfully healing grimoire for women ready to reclaim their rage, voice, boundaries, body, desire, rest, and freedom.
Part feminist manifesto, part shadow-work journal, part modern witch's spellbook, this book speaks to the woman who has spent years being useful, pleasant, forgiving, exhausted, and easy to manage-and is now ready to become dangerous to every system that depended on her silence.
Inside, you'll find spells, affirmations, chants, journal prompts, and rituals for breaking the Good Girl hex, unlearning the romance lie, saying no without apology, reclaiming your body, honoring your rage, setting boundaries, finding your coven, and dismantling the patriarchal conditioning that taught you to disappear.
This is not a soft little self-help book about becoming more acceptable. It is a grimoire for women who are done confusing endurance with virtue, done mistaking compliance for love, and done asking permission to live fully.
If you are angry, grieving, tired, tender, sharp-tongued, spiritually curious, OR carrying a spark of power under the ash, this book is for you.
Come as you are. Bring your rage, your journal, your cracked-open truth, and whatever fucks you have left to burn.
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Spells for Women Who are Finally Old Enough to Not Give a Fuck!
Dear Reader:
I LOVED writing this book more than any of my other titles.
No one to edit my rage writing but myself. And yes, a few times I did actually edit myself.
But mostly, I wrote about all taking back myself from the control I was raised under in a highly conservative, Christian, patriarchy that was based on ignorance and fear. It was a place I never fit in and once I learned I didn’t have to force myself into that square peg, I began to unlearn all the propaganda that was shoved down my throat for decades.
This book is the result of myself saying No Fucking More, and to let women everywhere know, they can say the same.
Join together my sisters,
Kerri
High Vibes & Spooky Spirits is more than a book tour.
It’s a year-long journey blending reader gatherings, haunted history, sacred plant traditions, and real-life exploration.
But this journey isn’t just mine.
Along the way, I’m collecting stories — from readers, fellow travelers, and those who have experienced the unexplained. Selected stories may be edited and included in a future book inspired by this entire adventure: High Vibes & Spooky Spirits.
If you’ve encountered something strange…
If you have a ghost story to tell…
If you’ve ever felt the veil thin for just a moment…
I’d love to hear from you.
Check my 2026 tour dates, join me on the road and follow my social media for High Vibes & Spooky Spirits!
— Author Kerri Connor
An Adventure of Mystics and Mayhem
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Thank you for your support!
Blessed Be.
May the Force be with You.